Ukufumana ukwazi umntu nge uluvo humour - abafazi ufuna ngokwenene. BRIGITTE

Nokuba abafazi nyani umntu kunye Humor ufuna

BRIGITTE Stephan Bartels unako ukufumana abafazi ngenene Laugh - sele ukusukela made yakhe amavauyabazi ngaphakathi ubomi babantu - izahlulo olu Lwazi kwi yakhe entsha samkele, i - 'best abahlobo' (S, Euro, Heyne). Kwaba, kwezinye iindlela, matzo Krogmann, sele kuvulwa amehlo am. Ngelo xesha, xa sasivuya ingqinqwa abahlobo, ubudala, Esikolweni name abahlobo. Matze waba incredibly, ozolisayo, kodwa okubaluleke wakhangela incredibly kakuhle - baqeqeshwe, kunye intloko makhulu kunokuba zonke kuthi, mnyama iinwele, inexplicably, soloko tanned, nkqu palest Emntla isijamani Ebusika. Kokuba oqaqambileyo blue amehlo, malunga njani Terence Induli. Matze ke kubekho inkqubela Okubhaliweyo, lowo ayikwazi kuba wathi, njengoko bathi, wonke. Wayeyindoda engqongqo follower ka-uthotho monogamy, kwaye nkqu a ndonwabe abathembekileyo umphefumlo.

Ngoku, njengoko eyona umhlobo lo kuba uninzi unreachable Iphowusta Boys, mna wayengowokuqala incopho ka-qhagamshelana njengoko pretty njengoko i-nervous kubekho inkqubela xa kwenzekile naye ye-boy nimangaliswe.

Ngomhla we-kwam, kwaba explored njani ngoku imeko yaba abahlala Matzkes uthando. Kodwa kuba kwakukho phezu ixesha elide, kuphela Doreen, mna ke sikhundla wendibano engalunganga iindaba, ngoko ke, ukuthetha, Matzkes shield kwaye Umonwabisi ka-alaphukanga Teenage iintliziyo kwi personal Union. Kwaye ingakumbi inxalenye yokugqibela yale umsebenzi wazaliswa kum ekuhambeni kwexesha, kunye ethile zeal: ndifuna i kubekho inkqubela waziva ngcono. Bendinenxaki, uxhathiso act ka-detention ka-sporting ambition, ukuthatha kwabo kwesinye isandla, zonke ithemba matzo kwaye yizise ngexesha elinye ixesha Laugh. Mna zilawulwe surprisingly rhoqo, kwaye kwaba irritating indlela ukuba zonke a sudden ndandisele umdla kuwe. Ngoko ndafunda pretty phambi kwexesha ngomhla ukuze sibe guys zonke kuba zethu iindima ebomini. Mna ke akukho matzo, akukho radiant Adonis ukusuka End terraced indlu.

Ithetha ntoni ukuba uyenze kunye nam

Mna ke Commissioner for wellbeing, kubekho inkqubela ayikwazi laugh.

Oku alifumanisanga itshintshe kude kube namhlanje, hayi ke kakhulu, kwaye ethandwa kakhulu prejudices, ndiza iselwa okulungileyo kugqatso.

'Eyona nto, wathi ubani uluvo humour' - ufuna ukuva oku isivakalisi ixesha kwaye kwakhona, xa oko kuza kwindawo ezingundoqo iimfuno zabantu abangamadoda ngokomthetho budlelwane. Kodwa ngaphandle ukusuka yokuba kukho ngaphezu ngokwaneleyo abafazi abo ibango enjalo nto, ngoko kwakhona humorless kunye unlustigen Sixpack-makers kwi-crate kwaye ilizwe: Lo nonsense. Ndinguye ngoku ubudala, lam lokuqala real asazanga ngu kancinci ngaphezu ezintathu decades (Andrea S, aprili, iqela igumbi kwi-Norderstedt-Mitte, ngexesha Engtanzes, ndine kancinci ukuphendula kuba, njengoko nyulu budlelwane, technically. Kwaye mna ndinguthixo ka-ifemi Conviction ukuba Humor kwi-uluvo 'Le ayiyo kunzima ukusebenza ngokupheleleyo funny guy' - lo crucial ipropati lonto yenza umntu a phupha umntu. Kuba oko kuza ngayo inzuzo umfazi, ukuba yakho uhlobo uzama ukusombulula yonke bunzima, lowo ibiza i-Paliname Palm' kwaye 'Ngoku a idlalwe joke.' uyekile pushing. Ukuba nayiphi na ezinzima wayecinga ukuba ufumana waphendula nge irony. Ukuba ungummi umntu, amandla romanticcomment moments kwi-siseko a lust umdlalo. Seriously ngoku, Ngubani na iimfuno a Mario Barth. Kabani ekuhambeni wam elinolwazi ubomi abanye abantu, eyona umsebenzi yi-fun - Olli Dittrich, Bully Herbig, Olli Schulz, Christoph Mariya Herbst, umzekelo. Akukho apho sele kwenzeka kakuhle-deserved; u; yi-mere Kalauere. Humor, real Humor, isebenza kuphela xa unabo osisiseko. Ukuze ukwazi kuba substructure, equlathe isakhono mamelani, ubulumko, uvelwano, kwaye warmth entliziyweni. Nantsi into enokuyenza Humor: Uya warms phezulu. Yena yenza proximity, lowo transcends iindonga phakathi abantu ababini. Kwaye lowo unako kuba ngenene sexy. Ndicinga ukuba nawuphi na ityala. Uyakwazi kuva, nangona i-rare, ukuze abantu ke Humor yeyona Eyona umbutho kuba attractiveness ka-umfazi. Kodwa kuba kum, kubalulekile ka-existential ukubaluleka. Ndicinga ukuba abafazi ingaba omkhulu, ndifuna ngathi, ukuba awuqinisekanga pretty, mna admire kuni, ukuba uphelelwe ngamandla. Kodwa nyani mna ke wam Enye imihla xa ndinga laugh phezu umfazi.

Ngaphezu kweento zonke: malunga ngokwabo.

A budlelwane ukuba ufumana kuphela ngokubhekiselele kwi uluvo Humor, asiyiyo ingakumbi viable.

Kodwa ulwalamano ngaphandle Humor ngu pointless ukususela ukuqala, kwaye lulahlekile.

Mna efana nento yokuba ukwazi njani ukuba yenze matzo Krogmann, oku suburban phupha iintlobo kwangoko Eighties.

Ndiyathemba unabo iingcaphephe zilawulwe ukuze ndonwabe, nangona kukho yakhe elungileyo yekratshi. Iimeko ingaba iselwa okulungileyo - humour kokuba.