Njani Dating kwenzelwa kwi-China

Ngamanye amazwi, akukho ezongezelelweyo koxinzelelo

Kutshanje, sino eziliqela imibuzo malunga iintlanganiso kwi-ChinaLo ngumzekelo umdla isihloko ukuba kwenzeka kwiindawo ezininzi ebalulekileyo yenkcubeko amanqaku ka-qhagamshelana, ngoko ke, ndingathanda ukuthetha malunga nayo kuba imizuzu embalwa. Oko kuxhaphakile ukuva abantu bathi yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano ingaba overrated okanye hayi kangangoko njengoko zisetyenziswa, kwaye nangona kukho ezinye isizathu ukukholelwa ukuba yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano akufanele ridiculed ngenxa yokuba ngokuqinisekileyo zikho. Omnye imiba ebalulekileyo apha kukuba kuba Isitshayina abafazi, kokukhona ugxininiso lwalo ngu kumaqhosha phambi kwexesha umtshato. Oku uyaya emva ngaphantsi iityuwadefault colour amaxesha, xa umtshato ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ezininzi kuyimfuneko zokhuseleko, kodwa kunjalo oku ngokuthi akukho kuthethwa purely Isitshayina phenomenon: i-american abafazi abo bamele watshata phambi reaching adulthood, kodwa indlela emva ngu ngaphezu ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha. China ufumana i-entsha zonke namhlanje ke stably-globalized-Intanethi (kwaye iyasebenza, ke yokugqibela, ngenene) into kweli lizwe, kwaye ukuba yayo inkcubeko iphezu, eminyaka kamva, ubudala imikhuba kufa nzima. Cinga kanjalo umbuzo we-izizukulwana ukuba badlale indima enkulu apha: a beautiful elonyuliweyo abo sele squeezing ngaphandle abazali, oomawomkhulu, ingaba omnye lowo ubeka oku uxinzelelo ukufumana watshata, nkqu nokuba wena ngokwakho akavumelekanga ukuba uzive ethanda okanye anomdla. Oku ngenxa yakho oomawomkhulu, kwaye kusenokwenzeka (kuxhomekeke apho ufaka kwi-China) ngxi ixabiso usapho uzinzo, ingakumbi ixesha lakho, enikwe instability kwaye volatility yakho ixesha. Eneneni, mna kanye umhla a kubekho inkqubela owaye kuphela iindawo ukuze wakhe abazali grandmother sele zivunyiwe ka, kuba uyakwazi qinisekisa ukuba akukho namnye ezo ndawo babebaninzi kakhulu funny. Yakho ibhinqa kwisizukulwana kusenokuba okulungileyo e ekubeni wokuqala omnye kuba romanticcomment inkululeko oyikhethileyo, kwaye ukuba yinto kufuneka ukumbule xa kufuneka enze izigqibo kuba yakho kubudlelwane - ngu-hayi itoni enye yenkcubeko precedents ukuba uyakwazi babuya umva njalo. Khumbula: xa ufuna kokuqwalasela ntoni ukwenza ngokomthetho budlelwane nabanye, musa ukusebenzisa abazali bakho, umtshato, kwaye okanye budlelwane nabanye njengoko a guide. Ukuba abazali Bakho kunye namanye amalungu osapho esiba watshata kuba ukunceda kunokuba romance, kukho hayi kakhulu ukunceda Wena fumana romanticcomment iqabane lakho esabelana unako ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba touch. Enye kubekho inkqubela mna kukhankanywe ngaphambi koko - abazali bakho umtshato wenziwa arranged yi-uyihlo ke commanding igosa kwi-umkhosi, kwaye mna ndimbuza amaxesha ngamaxesha, ingaba ngenene ukuba kufuneka umamele Dating iingcebiso ezivela abantu abathe zange kuhlangatyezwana nazo? Oku rhoqo kukhokelela iingxaki involving abazali kwi-budlelwane nabanye kwaye Dating. Ungaya ukufunda malunga creepy wedding kwiimarike kwi-China, apho abazali misela itheyibhile uluhlu lophinda-phindo, izibhengezo zabo omdala oonyana neentombi ukuya kwezo meko partners. Nangona eneneni uninzi Isitshayina andazi zabo elizayo mlingane ngoko ke, kulungile, umtshato kwiimarike ingaba ngxi iselwa ngokufanayo, nkqu kwi-Western izixeko ngathi i-shanghai. Ngexesha i-West uyakwazi zama pretend ukuba abe elihle kwaye hayi kuba intsingiselo uqhagamshelane ne-umntu, kwi-China kubalulekile nomthetho ukuthumela imiyalezo okanye umnxeba amaxesha aliqela mini, nkqu ukuba ubudlelwane ayikho nkqu ekude ezinzima. Oku ezithile zenkcubeko umahluko, kwi-bam amava, ngu big isizathu sokuba abaninzi kangaka emnqamlezweni-yenkcubeko budlelwane nabanye kusilela.

Ndiyazi ukuba kubekho inkqubela ndandidibana texted kum ezintlanu phambi phinda-phinda lunch elandelayo mini - ezinzima hayi kuba kum, kodwa esezantsi umgaqo-nkqubo ukulungiselela wena.

Indoda idla sele ukwenza zonke izigqibo kwi-Isitshayina courtship, kwaye abanye girls thatha kakhulu seriously. Mna xa wabuza a kubekho inkqubela ntoni yena babefuna ukwenza kumhla kwaye ayizange iphendulwe. Kanjalo olwamkelekileyo ukwenza umhlobo kunye nawe, kodwa hayi kwi double umhla - ngu engakumbi ngathi i-escort, a tampon, okanye ukhuseleko net. Nawuphi na kunjalo, konke oku kuthetha ukuba kwi-China, nkqu ukuba ufaka Dating umntu kuba okwenene, i-wedding ngu ubuncinane kwi-ithebhule.

Nkqu ukuba ke ayisosine ukuba kubalulekile ukuba yena ubuqu, yena kwaye ingaba kukho into ngomhla wakhe ingqondo, kwaye yakhe abazali baya kuphela nyusa yakhe lonke ixesha yena ubona kwabo.

Kangangokuba, phambi-marital intimacy kubaluleke kakhulu rarer kwi-China kwe kwi-West, nangona hayi okuninzi kunye younger, urbanized Isitshayina. Inyaniso yeyokuba, nangona kunjalo, ukuba osikhangelayo a iqabane lakho kwi-intimacy, ngoko ke kukho ifemi ukungena ukuba umtshato ephiwe ulundiname. Nangona ezi imithetho ngamanye amaxesha ngakumbi lenient kuba Isitshayina abo umhla foreigners, oku akusoloko kunjalo.

Kuba abantu, izinto bakholisa ukuba abe ngaphantsi engqongqo: ngu hayi passionate countdown ye-mtshato indawo ephelela kuyo umhla (eyaziwa njenge rhoqo-ixwebhu phenomenon ka"leftover abafazi", kwaye usapho koxinzelelo tends kufuneka kancinane kunokuba lula kuba nabo ibhinqa nabo.

Thina wathetha kuni malunga irhafu iimfuno ukuba abantu rhoqo kufuneka ahlangane ukuze ulungele kuba elungileyo iqabane lakho: a ekhaya, imoto, kwaye olusisigxina umsebenzi ingaba de facto Dating iimfuno ngeendlela ezininzi izangqa, kwaye kunye ngokwesini imbalance eziliqela yezigidi ezongezelelweyo amadoda, abafazi unako rhoqo afford ukuba abe kakhulu picky.

Ndine umhlobo abo, xa wayengomnye Dating a Isitshayina guy, kukhankanywe ukuba yena asikwazanga ngenene care ukuba kokuba imoto okanye hayi.

Wakhe umhla literally azikholelwe comment kwaye ngoko nangoko balingwe ukucwangcisa ixesha kuba omnye umhla. Ngokubanzi, yenkcubeko ugxininiso lwalo kwi phambi kwexesha umtshato, ingakumbi abasetyhini, kuthetha ukuba Dating ufumana okuninzi ngakumbi kubalulekile kwaye akufunekanga kuthatyathwa lightly. Ngoku ukuba uyayazi kancinci malunga Dating inkcubeko kwi-China, khangela ukuba zeziphi Isitshayina kufuneka kuthi malunga zabo namanani romanticcomment iqabane lakho. Ezi YOYO Isitshayina izifundo ingaba i-intermediate kunjalo nge interviews kunye abantu ngomhla ezitratweni of China. Emva ezi elifutshane interviews, Yang Yang okunqanda phantsi engundoqo ulwimi amanqaku zifunyanwa yakhe iimpendulo. Umichael HURWITZ wachitha ezintandathu ubudala kwi-i-shanghai ngokwenza abancinane izinto uncedo bridge i-yenkcubeko kwaye ulwimi isithuba phakathi China kwaye West. Emva kwi-NATHI ukuba bafunde nzulu ushishino, Isitshayina Michael enjoys i-reggae umculo, lakhe hometown basketball iqela, i-comment ingxwaba Wizards, kwaye sele a handful ka-tattoos ukuze abe prefers hayi zichaza. Faka tone amanani emva ngamnye Pinyin syllable, kwaye ngoku nqakraza uguqulo qhosha ukutshintsha kubo tone tshintsha iilebhile.