ngenxa ezininzi Entshona abantu tshata Isitshayina abafazi abo bamele KAKHULU younger than kuwe. Ividiyo imihla ne-China

A kubekho inkqubela, mhlawumbi into

Kule veki iphelileyo, ndabona ezimbalwa kwi Sichuan restaurantEmva koko kwabakho omnye ithebhule ngobumhlophe nezinamandla, ndicinga ukuba, yi-ucango. kokuba trouble ordering ukutya, ngoko ke oku kubekho inkqubela waya u-mhlophe abantu ngamaxesha itheyibhile kwaye kuye kwamnceda umyalelo, kuba yena ke, ukususela Sichuan phondo, ngoko ke ndiya kuyenza. Emva koko kwabakho omnye ithebhule ngobumhlophe boys, yena ikhangeleka kuba ubunzima ordering ukutya, ngoko ke oku kubekho inkqubela waya u-mhlophe boys, itheyibhile kwaye kuye kwamnceda umyalelo, kuba yena evela Sichuan phondo, ngoko ke ndiyacinga ukuba yena uyayazi yakhe kunye ukutya, kodwa yena seemed kakhulu nomsindo, koko ndeva yakhe kuthi into yokuba umyeni wayesazi yakhe, kwi-China, njalo-njalo.Isitshayina umfazi. ngenxa yiyo yonke.

abanye couples zithanda ukuphila kufuphi nam, kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba bayathetha kubo, ixesha elininzi ndingacingi na umfazi, okanye zombini.

Yintoni i-WG? kwaye kutheni abo bayibize wabaleka.

Mna wouldn khange bayibize wabaleka. Kwaye Isitshayina umfazi ndiyazi wathi ukuba ufuna baba ukusuka Kodwa yena dresses na peasant, yena ke watshata omnye umntu mhlawumbi kunoko ngaphezu kwayo, yena ke uneducated.

kwaye Isitshayina umfazi ndiyazi, waze wathi ufuna baba ukusuka i-shanghai, kodwa yena dresses ngokupheleleyo na peasant, yena ke watshata omnye umntu, mhlawumbi ubudala.

yena ufumana kunoko kunokuba wena, yena ke uneducated, yena sits ekhaya kwaye iqalisa care kule ubudala umntu, naye kanjalo kuthatha care ezindala umntu, i-Pope, omdala oyindoda onemfundo ikhangeleka ubudala.

ngoko ke, yintoni amathuba ingaba ufuna uthetha malunga? kuphela kwi-USA. u-old abantu kwi-diapers (ubuncinane omnye kwi-diapers, ndiza na).

yena unako ukwenza OKUNINZI kwi-China abayo ubudala kwaye isempilweni umzimba.

Abantu ufuna kuba umfana kunye nabafana kubekho inkqubela kungajongwa ubudala, ngoko ke awunokwazi blame ngokwakho kuba oko. Le mfihlelo ingaba kutheni ulutsha abafazi kufuneka kunoko abantu. Lento ngokuqinisekileyo, hayi ngenxa oludala umntu ke athletic achievements okanye longevity kwi-bedroom, ngoko ke, yintoni imfihlelo? Imali kusenokuba isizathu, okanye ubuncinane i-ithemba, kuba imali.

Nangona kunjalo, akuyomfuneko ukuba bazi oko kuthetha ukuba ekubeni otyebileyo.

Eneneni, mihla, xa i-american kwaye European olungenangxaki ingaba kule imeko, sisazi kusoloko kuthetha bankruptcy. Mna suspect ukuba abaninzi young girls silindele ukuba enze imali evela ezi abantu abadala, kodwa endaweni yokuba get zabo diapers imdaka. I-phenomenon ka-younger abafazi kunye significantly kunoko amadoda ayi ndaqonda yi-Isitshayina girls kunoko Americans. Ngexesha lam College ubudala, mna wachitha a ehlotyeni ukusebenza ngomhla lizwe club, kwaye mna ngokukhawuleza uqaphele isihombo phakathi kwamalungu. I-avareji umntu ufumana i-one-yeminyaka ubudala mhlophe umntu lokuqhuba a Cadillac okanye Lincoln. Wayeza phantse rhoqo sikhatshwe a u-yeminyaka ubudala umfazi kunye enkulu iibhonasi Breasts kwaye dyed blond iinwele. Uninzi lwezi abafazi zifunyenweyo-United States kwi imaphu yehlabathi, kodwa imali ifunyenwe nangona zabo nokungabikho iingqiqo. Emva Isitshayina girls wabo omdala abahlobo. Mhlawumbi girls ufuna ngutata nani endaweni real girlfriend. Ndiyazi ayithethi ukuba enze evakalayo, kodwa ngokungafaniyo ne-girls, ingxowa-mali kuphela inkcazo mna unako ukufumana. Ndiza besilwa i-yobudala engama-Western guy kunye umfana Isitshayina kubekho inkqubela kwi-phambili manani ngoba ndisibonile ezi ubudala bags specially yenzelwe kuba young abafundi ngenxa yokuba asikwazanga ingaba kulungile zabo ekhaya lizwe.

Uya rhoqo a wafumana kwaye ilindele ukuba delicate kubekho inkqubela uza yanelisa iintswelo zakhe kwaye izicelo.

Wam nickname kuba la madoda ingaba i-shark, ngoba ndifuna ukuva ukuba bamele nje nokuqubha kwi-i-ocean ka-naive (kwaye ngamanye amaxesha hayi kakhulu naive) girls ikhangela uthando kunye nokhuseleko. Nangona kunjalo, kwi-nkqo ekukhuseleni ilungelo lomgaqo-kubekho inkqubela, ndiqinisekile ukuba abaninzi uyazi kakuhle ukuba yintoni eyenzekayo, kwaye dlala i-shark na violin. Uyayazi imeko, kwaye usebenzisa kwaye manipulate ngayo yakho luncedo. Kubonakala ukuba ukusetyenziswa loluntu mnqophiso nge amapolisa e-China ephiwe landula. Nje jonga rampant prostitution, lento ngokuqinisekileyo, nkqu a casual nakanye. Ndingumntu Caucasian umfazi, watshata ukuba i-zilandelayo: Isitshayina. Thina wavusa ke embalwa amashiya wam ezincinane hometown kwi-Mississippi, apho racism ingu pretty obvious. Kwiminyaka kamva (ndiyeza malunga kanye ngonyaka) kwaye emva kokuba ihlabathi sele kuba ngaphezulu vula, abantu musa buza iliso lethu eyesight okanye zethu interracial abantwana. Ukucinga yembali yabantu-United States, andiyi kuvunyelwa ukuba tshata umyeni wam phantsi Isitshayina exclusion umthetho. Phantse wonke society ikhangeleka ukwamkela kunawe kunye younger umfazi, kodwa hayi enye indlela jikelele. Abantu bamele nicinge ukuba zikhathalele umfazi kwaye boy, kwaye abaninzi ingaba nje ngokucacileyo ayikwazi ukwenza njalo (deliberate sarcasm). Kwi-real, non-exploitative budlelwane, racing kufuneka enze akukho umahluko). Kuba couples abo itshata ye-uthando kwaye nkqu ukuba umlungu ngu embalwa kuphela ubudala, a Caucasian umntu usoloko ikhangeleka ubuncinane ambalwa eminyaka ubudala. Isitshayina abafazi kufuneka ngenene enkosi amazulu ukuze babe ubudala ngoko ke gracefully: -) Abaninzi i-american abantu ayikwazi kufumana umfazi apho baya ndingathi, jonga, kuba uthando Aseyurophu, e-Asia. La madoda bakholisa ukuba abe kunoko, evela kakhulu ekuqaleni kwaye ngexesha khangela, kungani na ukufumana younger umfazi ukuba umfazi ingaba uzimisele tshata naye. Baninzi Asian girls abakhoyo ukulungele ukufumana watshata nje ngenxa engcono ezi zinto ebomini ithuba shiya ilizwe labo kuba i-United States. Andiqondi ukuba yakho meko kukuba vetshe malunga i-Western umntu marrying a younger Isitshayina umfazi, kodwa vetshe malunga umfana Isitshayina umfazi marrying i-yobudala engama-Western umntu, kwaye sele kakhulu kwenza imali kwaye eshiya-China. Ukuba umfazi e-United States ayikwazi tshata a Isitshayina umntu kwaye yiya ku-China, izakuba waqwalasela njengoko andwebileyo, akukho offense. kodwa ukuba Isitshayina umfazi kokuba ithuba enye i-i-american (akukho mcimbi indlela endala) kwaye yiya Emelika, ke yena ingaba mhlawumbi yenze, kwaye yakhe usapho ingaba mhlawumbi approve kuyo. Ke bonke malunga imali kwaye amathuba kuya kuzisa. I-American, European deserves kokukhona (rhoqo ilibala ukuba ubomi uza iindleko kuye ngaphezulu, kodwa kanjalo ngaphezulu). Ngeli ukuba umfazi, nkqu ukuba wayengomnye highly educated phambi Ngezifundo, kwaye sele limited amathuba njengokuba umfazi abo efumana ihamba kakuhle kunye foreigner, ngenxa stagnation ye-basebenza kwiindawo zentengiso (zininzi kakhulu graduates), ke yena ajongene i-ukukhetha Hobson. Ezolimo ukuba akahlawuli nto, i-data, umsebenzi ukuba akahlawuli nto okanye osisigxina isiqingatha, i-ingqikelelo a enkulu isixa-mali kwi-Hong Kong nje ukuhamba ezitratweni kwaye nkqu ngaphezulu Jordan sele abanye abafazi abo khetha oku route. Ndiyazi a kubekho inkqubela ekuthiwa Alice abantliziyo umyeni yena kukuthi, othe rhoqo balingwe enye kum, omnye abahlobo bakhe ukususela-China (ndinguye), ngoko ke yena unako kanjalo sebenzisa kude. Njengoko apha, nangona oko sele glass ceilings, ayinjalo njengoko confined njengoko ekhaya. Ndiza a ubudala kwaye i-Australian. Mna jonga imdaka, ngolunya izimvo kwaye abaninzi uthetho olusezantsi xa bebona mna neqabane lam omnye-yeminyaka ubudala Isitshayina girlfriend kwi-bam ingalo. Literally kule veki iphelileyo, thina ndaya airport kunye ukusuka kushishino uhambo ekhaya. Ndiyivile ukuba umfazi ke umama ngokuqinisekileyo wamanzi acociweyo kum abominably njengokuba indoda yakhe. Ndathi, ndiza uxolo, nto leyo ngenene disgusting.

I-boy, mhlawumbi, okanye into, ngolohlobo

Yena wathi:"Wena awukwazi ukufumana umfazi eyakho ubudala? Ndathi Ewe, yena ke sele ekhaya. Yena nje stared. Nceda kuhlangana ntombi yam Anita. Mna ke watshata yakho Isitshayina umama iminyaka emininzi. Ingaba engqondweni. Yena blushed ludano. Ndathi ufuna ukufumana yakho imdaka engqondweni ngaphandle gutter loo ntombi yam kissed, kwaye thina ekhohlo laughing. Umfazi wam kwaye ndandidibana xa wayengomnye studying amayeza e-Ngezifundo ka-Australia. Ngoku yena ke ephambili thoracic surgeon.

Intombi yethu sele Isitshayina iimpawu, ngolohlobo umama.

Andiqondi ukuba i-kwendlela kweli bali ufumana isigwebo. Yena ngenene akuthethi ukuba bazi inyaniso malunga imeko, ngoko ke yena ngcono ingqondo yakhe kunye amashishini kunye worry malunga yakhe ubomi obubobakhe. Ukuba ndifuna ukuqonda ngokuchanekileyo, mhlawumbi ungakwazi buza malunga nayo. i-i-american guy okanye into ethile. Uhlala kwi-America kwaye andazi okanye ukuqonda ukuba kutheni.

I-ingqondo thinks okwethutyana ukuba bekuzakufuneka okanye into, ngolohlobo, ndinga ufuna itshata umfazi ngubani kunoko ngaphezu kwam.

Hmm, ndibe nento yokuba ufuna itshata umfazi wam ubudala apha Emelika abo wayecinga kuphela herself. Okanye ndingathanda itshata umfazi owaye wavusa ukuthatha care wakhe usapho kwaye kokuba phezulu usapho amaxabiso. Lo mfazi ingaba kundinceda ukuphila ubomi bam kwaye ngexesha elinye ukwenza ubomi bakho ngoko ke kakhulu kuba ngcono ngawe. Ngoko, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa iminyaka yam kubekho, yena ndiya kushiya yakho esikolweni kuba ubomi kunye wam umhlalaphantsi kunye ingeniso kuba ubomi. Ungakwazi ukuphila apho ufuna, ngokungathi ufuna, kwaye zange worry malunga ke emva indlela baba nawe xa sifuna kuhlangatyezwana nazo. Liphi na umntu ongaphumelelanga kule game lobomi? Mna kuphela khangela winners. Njengoko kwakunjalo wathi kwi-impendulo, andiyazi ukuba ibingu enye age group ukuba wabuza ufuna imibuzo. Ndizokwenza i-i-american, kwaye umfazi wam ubani Isitshayina engineering enomsila. Kanye okokuba mna, kuya kuphela umsebenzi ukuba ufuna kuya kuba ubomi bakho bonke. Uyakwazi ukuhlala apha kwi-NATHI kwaye ndwendwela usapho lwakho kwi-China ukuba ufuna. Ukususela sisebenzisa kunye ndonwabe kakhulu ngoku, ndinguye njengoko ndonwabe kangangoko ndinako khumbula. Sisenza yonke into kunye. Hayi, akunyanzelekanga ukuba bona na losers kule ukuzonwabisa. Kunjalo, kukho amadoda kakubi abafazi babo, akukho mcimbi ukuba yena ngu-umfazi, i-american, Isitshayina, okanye naluphi na olunye ugqatso. I-Nickel abasebenzi iinkokeli ngenene yabonisa wonke umntu ukuze babe nokwazi zabo lweshishini, njengoko baya kukwenza ngamaxesha onke, kufanele wazi umntu owenza wathi: andiyazi into. Ndicinga ukuba wam dog kungcono kunokuba i guess. Andiqondi ukuba i-olusentloko kufuneka kwi age of the ezimbalwa.

Yabo mutual attractiveness kwaye chemistry ingaba kokukhona ebalulekileyo.

Ke na UXANDUVA, ubuqu, andikhathali abo prays efanayo njengoko umntu ongomnye prays. Kuyenzeka ukuba impendulo yakho umbuzo ube ayilunganga. Kutheni Isitshayina abafazi tshata abantu abakhoyo kakhulu kunoko ngaphezu kwabo? Yintoni esiza ingqondo kukuba umntu kufuneka ngempumelelo ukubona ngempumelelo umntu, ke kufana a icandelo lomboniso ukusuka ubomi elungileyo umhlobo ngubani onako nyusa usapho. Ukususela ngoko, mna anayithathela uqaphele ukuba abantu abaphila imali bakholisa ukuba abe kunoko. Le into ndine aqwalasela kwi-China kwi-eliphakathi-iphelelwe Isitshayina businessmen kunye younger ibhinqa companions, kodwa intombi yabo ayikwazi ukwenza oko kakhulu ngokwahlukileyo. Ndiza omnye abantu nisolko uthetha malunga. Okokuqala, Isitshayina abantu baya siphathe abafazi njengoko yesibini-iklasi abemi. Kwi-China, umntu ufunzele kuba umfazi ukujonga emva kokuba abazali bakhe ngoko ke, ukuba lowo akuthethi ukuba kufuneka worry malunga nawe.

Okwesibini, Isitshayina ladies baziswe phezulu ukuze anyange abantu.

Uninzi Isitshayina ladies ufuna ukuba abe wamanzi acociweyo kakuhle kukunika nethuba e a okulungileyo ebomini. Mna wanika umfazi wam kwaye yena kakhulu ndonwabe. Kwaye, kunjalo, ndinguye kakhulu ndonwabe. Ukuba abantu ababini unako ukunika kwabo, omnye umntu into yokuba ufuna kwaye kufuneka, yenze ukuze ndonwabe budlelwane.