Malunga ilungelo ixesha ukuqala usapho

Ezinye amadala umama sele get ukuva: unengxaki s grandchild

Kwi ibala lokudlala ubona namhlanje, ngakumbi oomama kwaye zooyise, apho basenokuba purely theoretically, grandmas kwaye grandpasAbanye kukho, abanye kuba kuphela get emva kwexesha ukuba ingaba i-Baby. Ukuba umfazi efumana namhlanje kunye iminyaka engama-umntwana, kubalulekile wabuza: Oh ukuba kwakukho i-kunokwenzeka ingozi.

Inyaniso yeyokuba: oomama kwimali-avareji yokufumana kunoko, phambi kokuba azise lakho lokuqala umntwana ehlabathini.

Namhlanje, abafazi ingaba ngokubanzi kakuhle educated, kwaye abaninzi ufuna ukuba afumane umsebenzi amava kwaye enze career phambi kokuqalisa usapho. Abo ufuna kuba abantwana, linda de nzulu kugqityiwe, wakha indlu kwaye unelungelo umntu ufunyenwe. Kodwa yintoni ngcono kuba Baby. Umfana mom, okanye ubomi amava kusenokwenzeka elikhulu ithuba lokulinda kunye abantwana, kukuba umfazi sele ixesha ukuphuhlisa, kwaye ukubona hlabathi, ukuba abe financially zikhuselekile kwaye ukuba ingaba i career made. Nabani na othe wahlala kuba abanye ixesha kunye yakhe Iqabane lakho, uyayazi naye kakuhle kwaye unako ukuhlola budlelwane. A solid Foundation kuba usapho. Ngexesha i-avareji ubudala abafazi ngomhla wokuzalwa ka-umntwana wokuqala kwi-West Sasejamani ngowamashumi iminyaka (kwi-Mpuma Sasejamani), sisebenzisa namhlanje kwi-eminyaka, kwaye kuza sele bafika ukuqhubeka kuvuka.

Kulo nyaka, ngokukodwa abafazi phakathi iminyaka neminyaka kwi-avareji ngakumbi abantwana ngaphandle umbutho woomama kwi-eminyaka ngaphambili.

Kwi-younger vintages, wokuzalwa umyinge ukuqhubeka landula.

Uphando bonisa ukuba yobudala engama-oomama ingaba rhoqo ngakumbi educated kwe-young oomama kwaye überlegtere izigqibo kwi-upbringing abantwana kuhlangana.

kunoko oomama ukuba breastfeed ngakumbi kwaye kanjalo healthier kuva. I-hei t, kodwa hayi ukuba bamele ngcono oomama. Ukulinda kunye nabantwana kanjalo sele mali izibonelelo. Ngokunxulumene a uphando nzulu yabasetyhini uqeshiwe gcina isigxina kwi-Germany.

Euro ngonyaka-ngokucacileyo ngu yokuba wena yiya ukufumana abantwana.

Abafazi, abo ukuqokelela kuqala amava emsebenzini, buyela emva maternity leave ngokukhawuleza ukusebenza. Uziva ukuba umqeshi wakho. Kulula kuwe ukufumana inxalenye-ixesha umsebenzi njengoko ukubuyela nemibutho yabasebenzi kwimakethi umva. Abazali ukuba kugxininisa ngakumbi kwi-abantwana babo kunokuba younger abazali. Kokuba ixesha, Ukuhlanganisa ubomi amava, ingaba ngakumbi Mature, kwaye ndenza ezininzi amava phambi kokuba abantwana. Kufuneka akukho Ingxaki unobuhle Iqela, ngenxa yokuba ingaba sele celebrated ngokwaneleyo. Kufuneka ngaphantsi amandla kodwa ngakumbi umonde. Wemiceli-disadvantage ka-Postpone a pregnancy de uvumelekile ukuba ziyi - ngu: ixesha elide wena linda, inzima ngakumbi kubalulekile ukuba baba pregnant.

Ngenxa eminyaka phambi kokuba umfazi reaches i-menopause, reduces inani ova.

I-matured oocytes ingaba ngakumbi sifuna kuba chromosomal Defects oko kungabangela imingcipheko, ezifana miscarriages kunye neziphene isiqinisekiso digenen. Omtsha nzulu kwi-ukhathalelo yembali Fertilste kwaye Sterilste (ukutyeba komhlaba kwaye sterility) underpins le Miyalelo. Researchers ifumanise ukuba ubudala abafazi wamanzi acociweyo kuba infertility, basenokuba a ipesenti Ithuba kunye wam owakhe amaqanda to get pregnant. Ekuqaleni kweminyaka eminyaka, oku inani bawa ipesenti kwaye eminyaka, wayengomnye ipesenti decreased.

Le abafazi ababe pregnant, babies bazalwe, bezinga ukungaphumeleli elisetyenziswa kwimifanekiso eboniswe eskrinini kwi-Nyaka, ngepesenti kulo Nyaka kwaye pesenti kulo Nyaka.

Young oomama kuba kakhulu ezahlukeneyo okuninzi kwaye disadvantages. Uyakwazi kuba lula wafakwa umntwana wakho.

Kanjalo, unyoko instinct kusebenza nkqu ngcono.

Kubalulekile scientifically proven ukuba abafazi kuphulukana nayo touch kunye ubudala. Ingqondo kwaye intloko kuziphatha ngakumbi i-rudder. I-yeminyaka ubudala, umama wakhe educates yakhe abantwana ngokusebenzisa izikhokelo, Ngexesha ubudala instinctively uyayazi into omawuyenze. Young oomama ingaba ngaphantsi mna-conscious kwaye ngaphantsi oxhalabileyo, uphando lubonise. Purely biologically ukuthetha, iminyaka eyona ukufumana i-Baby. Ngokunxulumene ingcali uluvo lwam, abafazi kukho uninzi fertile. Umngcipheko miscarriage kwi-younger abafazi kubaluleke kakhulu thoba: Kwi-ubudala ukuba eminyaka, kuya kuphela izixa-mali ukuba ipesenti, njengoko ngokuchasene elisetyenziswa kwimifanekiso eboniswe eskrinini kwi-abafazi ngaphantsi kweminyaka, kwaye elisetyenziswa kwimifanekiso eboniswe eskrinini kwi-abafazi phakathi kwaye Iminyaka.

Phakathi iminyaka kwaye eminyaka, kubalulekile engathndwayo ukuba gynecological iingxaki ezifana fibroids kwaye endometriosis ukuba kwenzeka, ngenxa yokuba ezi ukuphuhlisa kwiminyaka edlulileyo.

I-pregnancy ngokwayo zibe kuba abafazi phakathi iminyaka kwaye eminyaka, ngokulula, ngenxa yokuba lo eli qela ngaphantsi ezichaphazelekayo yi-health iingxaki ezifana hypertension kwaye Diabetes. Younger abafazi bakholisa ukuba ingaba births kanjalo ngaphantsi kwangoko, kwaye a kokuzalwa kuka babies kunye low wokuzalwa ubude. Ukongeza kwi-physical izibonelelo, zisekhona ngakumbi: kwaye bamele ngakumbi flexible, nokokuba ilungile kuba yakho kubudlelwane kwaye exchange yokuba ngumzali, uthi iintsapho kwaye Ehetherapeutin Susan healers.

I - kunye loluntu tshintsha ukwenza kwiminyaka yakutsha nje

I-mva couples enye, harder kubalulekile kuba nawe, ubuzwe indlela.

Ngoko ke, wonke ubudala sele yayo pros kwaye cons kwaye yakho Baby, kusenokwenzeka na umcimbi nakuba kunjalo, eyona nto ufuna sithande oko ngayo yonke intliziyo yam. Umntwana awunokwazi sicwangciso. Kuya kuza, ukuba ke ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ukuba abe. Ndicinga Ndinako wamsukela wam career iinjongo nakanjani na. Uyise ntombi yam, zam puppy uthando, ndiyazi, kuba ndandenziwe ubudala. Ubudlelane bethu sele kuba kunye iminyaka ukubonelelwa ngamandla. Mna ke xa ndandisele pregnant. Hayi kwakucwangcisiwe kodwa hayi unwanted. Wam imfundo mna bafuduka. Mna ndinguthixo ka-uluvo ukuba ndinako yenza, ukuba Luana uqalisa i-daycare. Ngaba awuyidingi ucinga kwi umyalelo wokuqala career kwaye ke umntwana. Yonke into uyaya, ukuba unengxaki amanyathelo afanelekileyo loluntu womnatha.

Mna kanjalo bacinga ukuba abantwana kufuneka ngenxa yabo nophuhliso nabanye abantwana.

Ke ngoko, ndiya kuba akukho engalunganga Miyalelo ukuze abanike phezulu. Mna ke sele isixhenxe idlulileyo kunye umyeni wam xa ndandisele pregnant. Wam zoqeqesho njengoko a retail clerk, ndaba nje igqityiwe kwaye ngokwenene babefuna ukuba ahlanganisane elinolwazi amava, intombi yethu kwaziswa. Ngexesha lokuqala ndandisele shocked, kodwa ke akusebenzi khange ixesha elide ukusukela uphumelele uvuyo. Ngoku ndiza exclusively umama. Kwaba cacisa ukuba mna hlala ekhaya.

Ndine ungene Khana kwi-nursery ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba ke ubani ndawo, ndihamba ukuqala yokubhala izicelo.

Umyeni wam inika kum into endiyenzayo.

Njengokuba mna-uqeshiwe businessman, unako kudla yosapho lwethu.

Sivuye kakhulu careful kwi-budlelwane bethu.

Bonke oomawomkhulu thatha Nje enye rhoqo liked ubusuku, ngoko ke ukuba siyakwazi ukuba yesibini kancinci. Ndiyavuya qho Kusasa xa Khana unxulumano ivula amehlo akhe kwaye mom.

Andisoze uthathe wam umandlalo kwaye thina cuddle.

Mna bonwabele eli lixa. Kodwa mna kanjalo ufuna ukumsukela wam career izicwangciso. Omnye kufuneka kusoloko ilungiselelwe yokuba kuya separates kanye. Ngubani owaziyo. Indlu izele abantwana ingaba usoloko uhleli phupha lam. Wam wokuqala u oonyana ndaba ekuqaleni rhoqo emva kweminyaka emibini.

Neqabane lam lesibini umyeni, ndifuna abantwana, kwaba sele kunye ekuqalekeni kanye isongiwe.

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