Iindlela ukuhlangabezana a kubekho inkqubela

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Intlanganiso girls kusenokuba ngumsebenzi ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha nto, ingakumbi ukuba unayo akukho unye into oyenzayoNokuba ngaba ufuna ukuya kuhlangana a kubekho inkqubela kuba friendship, fling, okanye ezinzima budlelwane, kukho ingaba ezithile izinto okokuba nimele kwaye shouldn khange senze ukwandisa yakho chances yokwakha a ubudlelwane kunye naye.

Luckily, intlanganiso girls rhoqo kakhulu nganeno kunokuba nzima abantu bacinga.

Ukuba ufuna ukufunda njani ukuba angenise ngokwakho kwaye ke ukuphakanyiswa ubeke ngokwakho kwi-loluntu kwiimeko, intlanganiso girls yi breeze.

Intlanganiso girls kusenokuba ngumsebenzi ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha nto, ingakumbi ukuba unayo akukho unye into oyenzayo. Nokuba ngaba ufuna ukuya kuhlangana a kubekho inkqubela kuba friendship, fling, okanye ezinzima budlelwane, ingaba kukho izinto ezithile okokuba nimele kwaye shouldn khange senze ukwandisa yakho chances yokwakha a ubudlelwane kunye naye. Luckily, intlanganiso girls rhoqo kakhulu nganeno kunokuba nzima abantu bacinga. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda njani ukuba angenise ngokwakho kwaye ke ukuphakanyiswa ubeke ngokwakho kwi-loluntu kwiimeko, intlanganiso girls yi breeze. Dating websites-intanethi rhoqo kuba izigidi ibhinqa abasebenzisi ukuba ingaba omnye kwaye ujonge ukuba badibane nabantu.

Abanye websites bakhululekile ngelixa abanye kufuna ukuba uhlawule ngenyanga imali.

Yiyiphi iqonga ufuna ukusebenzisa kwaye ndwendwela i-dating iwebhusayithi ngoko ke ukuba uyakwazi ukwenza i-akhawunti. Dating apps njenge Tinder, Ikofu Meets Bagel, kwaye Hinge ingaba edityanisiweyo kunye Facebook kwaye ezithunyelwayo ulwazi ukusuka yakho loluntu media inkangeleko ukunceda ukwakha yakho dating yabucala. Uyakwazi ukulayisha ezansti ezi-apps yakho ifowuni kwaye sebenzisa nabo ukuze ukhangele girls kwindawo yakho ukuba bamele kanjalo ukujonga kuhlangana umntu. Xa ufuna ukwenza yakho ekwi-intanethi inkangeleko, uyakwazi zalisa ngayo ngaphandle ukuhlangabezana iimfuno zakho. Ziquka nje photo ka-ngokwakho kwaye yongeza iinkcukacha kwi-inkangeleko yakho into nisolko ikhangela kwi kubekho inkqubela. Chaza ukuba ukhe ubene ikhangela friendship, casual dating, okanye ezinzima budlelwane. Yenza inkangeleko yakho humorous ngoko ke ngu memorable kwaye bagcine inkangeleko njengoko genuine kangangoko kunokwenzeka.

Ukukhangela girls baphilayo jikelele kuwe kwaye nqakraza zabucala ukuze nibe nokufumana umdla.

Gcina yakho yokufunda umgca ilula kwaye kakhulu kwaye uphephe usebenzisa chola-phezulu imigca okanye omnye-liners. Endaweni yoko, ungaqala uthetha kubo ngo ukufumana into kuwe kunye share ngokufanayo.

Ukuba baya kuba umfanekiso ukususela Yendalo Lwembali Museum, ungathi into efana, 'Heee, ndiza Joe.

Xa waye sihamba apho?' Emva kokuba thumela lakho lokuqala umyalezo, uza ufuna ukugcina incoko ke. Buza kubekho inkqubela imibuzo, zama ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye naye. Umyalezo wakhe kwi-intanethi de yena uziva ngathi usasebenzisa ethambileyo, ngoku buza umsebenzi wakhe inombolo yefowuni. Uphephe esithi overtly ngesondo izinto okanye digging kakhulu kulinywa nzulu kwi ubomi babo. Ezilungileyo incoko izihloko zibandakanya umculo, iimifanekiso, celebrity guquguqula, incwadi kuwe anayithathela kutshanje ukufunda, okanye ezinye izinto ukuze wenze ngokufanayo.

Ukuba uziva ngathi umbhalo incoko ngu stalling, buza umbuzo njenge, 'Ngoko ke ndidinga nje wabona-bhanyabhanya Tusk, yavuthuza engqondweni yam.

Hayi ngendlela elungileyo indlela. Ngaba uye jones iimifanekiso?' Xa ufuna ukwakha elungileyo rapport kunye kubekho inkqubela, ke ixesha buza ukuba yena ufuna ukuya kuhlangana phezulu umntu. Kuhlangana yakhe kwi-eliphantsi-usamuel loluntu isicwangciso na ikofu-shop, brunch, okanye ukuhamba kwi-park. Biza kubekho inkqubela efowunini kwaye uzame isihlomelo a ixesha kuhlangana kuyo umntu. Omnye easiest iindlela ukuhlangabezana entsha girls ngu-ngu hanging ngomgca yakho ezikhoyo abahlobo kunye ukwakha ubudlelwane babo abahlobo. Thetha girls yakho iindidi kwaye umenze ku zama ukuba iqela phezulu kunye nabo kuba iklasi assignments. Ukuba ufuna uphuma esikolweni okanye musa ndiye esikolweni, sayina kuba iklasi e kuyo zoluntu umbindi kwi-phantsi ukuba umdla kuwe. Ukuqala nge-uthetha malunga iklasi oriented izinto phambi kokuba uyise kwi ngaphezulu personal incoko. Intlanganiso girls ngalo msebenzi uza kukunika into eqhelekileyo ukuba bathethe malunga kwaye iya kuba ngaphantsi ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha kunokuba ukumiselwa ngokwakho ukuba a stranger. Yiya ngaphandle indlela yakho ukuba bathethe i-girls emsebenzini ukuba uyafuna. Xa ngaba wakha a friendship, buza kwabo ukuba babeya ufuna chill ngaphandle umsebenzi. Thetha malunga umsebenzi yi esithi into efana, 'Seriously? Zintathu kabini shifts kule veki.

Musa onqwenela okokuba & cwangcisa waba kancinci ngakumbi umbutho?' Buza wakhe ukuba beka phantsi ngaphandle nge esithi into efana, 'Yo, ndicinga ukuba ngenene.

Ingaba ufuna beka phantsi ngaphandle umsebenzi ngexesha elithile?' Okanye ungakwazi ukufumana ngakumbi ethile, uthi into efana, 'Yintoni ufuna ukwenza oku ngolwesihlanu? Ufuna ukuya ndonwabe ilixa kunye nam?' A bookstore ngu elikhulu kwindawo ukuya kuhlangana entsha girls kwaye oninika elungileyo isihloko ukuba uqhankqalazo phezulu i-lokuqala incoko. Ukuba uyabona kubekho inkqubela ikhangela ngaphandle incwadi kuwe afunyanwe, angenise ngokwakho kwaye uqhankqalazo phezulu incoko malunga incwadi. Ukuba uva intimidated yi-bar okanye club, bazisa ngaphezulu a ezimbalwa abahlobo bakho. Zama ukwenza iliso uqhagamshelane ne-girls ukuba ubona kwi bar kwaye wahamba phezulu aze angenise ngokwakho kubo.

Okanye ungathi 'Yakho sneakers ingaba ngenene elihle, banjalo omtsha Zezulu Ubukhulu Groats? Mna ke ukucinga yokufumana a pair kubo ngokwam.

Ukuba uzama ukuba angenise ngokwakho ukuze kubekho inkqubela ukuba awuyazi, uza kuba ukwenza iliso uqhagamshelane kunye yakhe kuqala. Jonga yakhe icala kwaye sibone ukuba yena reciprocates i iliso uqhagamshelane.

Ukuba yena ikhangeleka kuni emehlweni kwaye smiles, ke idla i-physical umqondiso ukuba yena ufuna thetha nawe.

Ukwazisa akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ube elaborate, oko nje sele ukuze ufumane impendulo. Ngokulula uthi 'Molo' uze umxelele kwayo igama lakho. Ngoko ke, uyakwazi buza yakhe ngubani igama lalo ngu kwaye ucele kuye indlela yakhe ngu mhla ke. Ukuba sele kuba budlelwane ukuba ufuna anayithathela wakha ngokusebenzisa chatting, ungaya kwi-kuba a hug xa uqala badibane nabo. Qiniseka ukufunda zabo umzimba ulwimi.

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Ukuba babe tsala umva okanye jonga uncomfortable, tshintsha hug kwi uthotho lweempawu zonxibelelwano. Kuqhubeka ukwenza ingxoxo kunye kubekho inkqubela kwaye ucele kuye imibuzo malunga herself. Kuba vula, responsive, kwaye truthful xa uthetha malunga ngokwakho. Ukuba incoko flows kakuhle kwaye uziva ngathi usasebenzisa yendalo, buza wakhe ngenxa yakhe uqhagamshelane ulwazi ngoko uyakwazi thetha yakhe kamva. Ungathi, into efana, 'Heee, ngoko ke ndizokwenza malunga ukufumana ngaphandle apha kodwa mna ngenene liked uthetha kuwe.

Cinga mna ayikwazanga ukufumana yakho inani ngoko ke singadibanisa chill kwixesha elizayo?' Okanye ungathi, into efana, 'kwaba ngenene okulungileyo intlanganiso kufuneka tonight.

Makhe exchange amanani ngoko ke sinako beka phantsi ngaphandle kamsinya. 'Ukuba anayithathela ukuba ubukele a kubekho inkqubela ukuba ungathanda bevela kude kodwa akhange na kokuba i-guts ukuya phezulu kubo aze angenise ngokwakho, yakho isebenza kuphela ngokuchasene ngokwakho. I-ixesha elide wena linda, ngakumbi kusenokwenzeka ukuba le meko iya kuba awkward. Endaweni besoyika bonke enokwenzeka zokufunda, nje benyukele kubekho inkqubela kwaye angenise ngokwakho. Ke phezulu kuwe kwaye kubekho inkqubela ukuba ukhe ubene kunye. Ukuba uziva ngathi kwabakho ngenene okulungileyo chemistry, ungaya kwi-kuba asazanga ekupheleni umhla. Ukuba yena vala amehlo wakhe aze ashukumise kukufutshane kuwe, ngoko ke uyazi yena ngu anomdla. Ukuba yena vala yakhe umzimba ngaphandle okanye pushes kuwe kude, musa ukuzama ukuba asazanga yakhe kwakhona.

Bam girlfriend kutshanje waphula phezulu nam kwaye wonke omtsha kubekho inkqubela mna zama zange isebenza kwaye mna akukwazeki ukufumana nabani na ongomnye, ndingenza ntoni? Ekubeni lonely ngu nzima, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sidinga ixesha kuphela ngoko ke ukuba singakwazi ukwakha ngokwethu.

Beka ngokwakho ngaphezulu kwi izinto ngaba uyakuthanda njenge emidlalo, ukubhala, okanye gaming. Xa kufuneka ahlangane a kubekho inkqubela ukuba ufuna genuinely njenge, ungaqala kumhla kwabo. Zama ukwenza njengoko abaninzi ibhinqa abahlobo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Uyakwazi zama ukutshintsha yakhe uluvo lwam ngu uthetha kuye omnye-kwi-omnye. Zama ukufumana yakhe ifowuni inani ukusuka umhlobo kwaye zichaza ngokwakho ngokusebenzisa okubhaliweyo. Kuthi ukuba ukhe ubene na uhlobo umntu ukuba wonke umntu thinks ufuna. Kuba ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo izizathu. Ucinga ukuba kutheni kufuneka sibe ukuxoka. Ukulungele ukuhlasela embarrassed okanye wena musa ufuna kwenzakalisa umntu ke nemvakalelo. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ulinde inde kakhulu ukuthumela imiyalezo ukugcina incoko ke.

Ubusuku kufuneka ahlangane yakhe, xa ufumana ekhaya, ungakwazi umbhalo wakhe into efana, 'ndaba ngenene ezilungileyo ixesha.

Makhe senze ukuba kwakhona ngokukhawuleza. 'Oko kuxhomekeke indlela endala awuqinisekanga, kwaye yintoni imeko kuwe basemazweni. Ukuba ke isemthethweni yakho urhulumente, qalisa ukwakha friendship kwaye beka phantsi ngaphandle abayo kwimicimbi yasekuhlalweni kwiimeko. Ukuba kukho chemistry apho, buza wakhe ukuba yena ingaba ufuna ukuya kumhla kunye nawe. Kuqwalasela ntoni yena ke ujonge kwi kwaye enze + izimvo malunga imveliso. Umzekelo, ukuba yena ke ujonge kwi oatmeal uyakwazi ukuthi, 'Ingaba sekhe balingwe omnye kunye carissin? Mna asikwazanga ukuba ndibe nento yokuba efana ngayo kodwa ke nyani okulungileyo. 'Ukuba yena ikhangeleka ndonwabe nge ukuba, uyakwazi angenise ngokwakho kwaye qalisa incoko. E-bam lake indlu, kukho omtsha kubekho inkqubela ukuba bafudukela kulo kuwo cove. Indlela kufuneka ndiye malunga intlanganiso yayo? Btw ndine boat? Zama ukuba ubeke ngokwakho kwi imeko apho yena ngu kwaye ngoko angenise ngokwakho, kuye. Oko basenokuba kwamanzi, e-iqela, okanye ezinye loluntu imeko. Ukuba ufaka young, oku kakhulu kusenokwenzeka ukuba ngenxa yokuba yena ufumana ukuba neentloni. Zama ukuba buza umbuzo endaweni nje esithi 'molo. 'Uthi into efana, 'Heee, njani ingaba ngokwenza namhlanje? Akusebenzi khange kube andwebileyo ngesingesi iklasi izolo?'. Ividiyo Dating umhla-dibanisa i-intanethi-dating-ingcebiso kwi-intanethi-dating-lokuqala-umyalezo kwi-intanethi-dating-lokuqala-umyalezo-tips-umyalezo-isikhokelo.