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Nika Facebook kwi block, unye ukuba kuya kuqala ukuba umntu kufuneka azi valaHayi ukuba wena ungafuni ukuhlangabezana bathambe, intelligent kwaye solvent. Kodwa ufuna, ezele virtues, kuya kufuneka ukuba abathengi ngokwakho romance.Kuba kum, umbuzo nokuba umfazi unako kuba initiator ka-Dating, kwaye nokuba ufuna kubo kuba obvious,"utshilo psychologist Jana. - Umfazi rhoqo ukuphenjelelwa umntu, kwaye loluphi uhlobo isicwangciso-buchule yena isebenzisa ngu enxiba eyona dress okanye suits kunye kunikela ka-d ngu iinkcukacha." Phezu kwezi efanayo imimandla kwaye ingaba scratching kweentloko zenu ladies. Ngokunxulumene uphando, uninzi ikholelwa ukuba elimfiliba kulula ukufumana abahlobo ("iqela apho wonke umntu uyayazi ngamnye enye, asiyonto inzima ngakumbi ukuza kuwo maniac"), emsebenzini ("apha ndinguye kaninzi kwaye kuba sebenza ngokujikeleza ixesha"), kwi-Intanethi ("ithuba, kunjalo, incinci, kodwa kulula ukuhlala incognito - alikwazi ukwahlula njengoko scary njengoko nawe indlela umntu kwi bar") kwaye iindawo a ngokwesiqu congestion kwabasemzini ("umzekelo, mna waba lilungu yacht club - ubuncinane ukhuphiswano kwaye ezininzi guys kwi-ezimanzi t-shirts"). Kodwa into malunga iinkwenkwezi, iivenkile kunye icawe lectures ngomhla Polytechnic, ucela.Kwaye Jikelele: njani. Elvira, psychologist, mfundisi NLP kwaye umbhali we uqeqesho"Ukuziqhelanisa ka-Dating kwi-big isixeko"uza dispel yenu yonke doubts. Mhlawumbi linda kude kube nguye fit. Khumbula: mangaphi amaxesha ebomini bakho ukhe wala ukunika umntu ifowuni kwaye nje ukubiza igama.

Ngoku beka ngokwakho kwi-izihlangu ye-avareji umntu ukuba ungathanda kuba budlelwane.

Xa mna drove kuye ukufumana acquainted kwi-ezothutho, njenge nani, saliwe ngalo lonke jika. Ngo neminyaka engama- (a ke ngoko ukusebenza ngcono kunokuba phambi) yena ndabona ukuba kwenzeka isibali zonke silly, kwaye ukususela ngoko, ukulinda ngomonde umfazi herself ingaba kumnika ukuqonda ukuba yena ufuna ukuya kuhlangana nani. Ke ngoko, umsebenzi wakho kukuba yenza imeko apho umntu uya baqonde ukuba wena musa engqondweni Dating.Kwaye apho kuya kwenzeka - ayinamsebenzi: ukuhlangabezana uthando ingafunyanwa kwi-supermarket, stadium, kwaye nkqu intle Bay downstairs neighbors. Kuza uninzi ezingafanelekanga. Musa ufuna intrude. Kunjalo, kulungile, xa umfazi uyayazi indlela kuba embarrassed, kodwa kakhulu engalunganga xa yena uthi yena uya zange kuhlangana yokuqala. A rolling ilitye akukwazeki ukufumana nkqu uninzi emelanayo indoda nomfazi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba awuyazi njani ukuhlangabezana opposite sex, thatha kwaye ukufunda. Kunjalo, woloyiso zabo complexes nomama wam ke ufakelo lwe-uthotho"decent girls musa"kuba ukusebenza ngomhla kwabo. Ukuhlola kunikwe ukwenza fears, reconsider, end, ezifunwa society nosapho imiyalelo.Oko bekuya kuba ngenene, kulula - nibe kuba nkqu ukuya a psychologist okanye psychoanalyst. Kodwa kuba abafazi kunye kugqitywe yangaphakathi iingxaki inkqubo amava - elula abantwana ke iphazili. Yiya kuphulukana nayo umlinganiselo kuqala, kwaye kwangoko - nje ukufumana acquainted. Sonke kufuneka zethu beliefs, yintoni ifanele, kwaye baya kunika zethu yangaphakathi iimpikiswano."Get watshata, mna kufuneka ibe beautiful noqoqosho. Kwaye andikho elimnandi kakhulu kwaye ndiyakuthanda kuba lazy. Ngoko ke, andikho watshata", - thinks i kubekho inkqubela, kwaye, kunjalo, akunjalo umngcipheko kuhlangana anybody. Mhlawumbi i-ummelwane ke cottage, othe wena liked, ninoyolo ukuba ukuxoka ngaphandle kuye kwi sofa nocwangco a meal ezimbini ngexesha restaurant. Ngokufutshane, ibandakanye yakho ngaphakathi imiqobo - kwaye abantu baya babambisa phezulu.