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Dating apps babedalwe ukwenza ingxowa yakho elandelayo budlelwane lula. Kodwa kunye ngoko ke ezininzi ezohlukeneyo imigangatho ukukhetha ukususela (nentlutha lamalungu & yenza kuba elungileyo ixesha, hayi ixesha elide), uzama ukufumana ukufanisa ngubani apha ekunene izizathu unako ukuqalisa ukuva uhlobo ukwenzeka. Ukuba ukhe ubene uqala ukufumana burned baphume yakho ekwi-intanethi ukukhangela ‘enye,’ oko kungenzeka ixesha reevaluate yakho isicwangciso-qhinga kwaye apps ukuba usebenzisa ukuze ukufumana yakhe. Njengokuba esithi uyaya, inkcazelo insanity ngu ngokwenza enye into phezu kwaye phezu kwakhona, ilindele eyahlukileyo ngenxa. Ngoko ke, ukuba oku izandi kakhulu njenge yakho yangoku i-intanethi dating ubomi obungunaphakade, ke ixesha rethink inkqubo kwaye imigangatho kuwe anayithathela kuba accustomed, qala branching ngaphandle kwaye zama ukusebenzisa into entsha. Inyaniso kuba wathi, kukho plenty yabasetyhini phandle phaya abakhoyo usebenzisa dating apps ukufumana into ezininzi ezinzima ngaphandle ngobunye ubusuku kuma — qhosha liyimfuneko ukwazi njani kwaye apho ukufumana kwabo. Thina wabuza ezimbalwa dating ingcaphephe ngenxa yabo eyona iincam kwaye ingcebiso ngomhla apho dating apps ziya kukunceda fumana ukufanisa ngubani kanjalo ikhangela nokuzinikela. Nazi iingcebiso zabo kuba eyona apps ukusebenzisa ukuba nikulungele ukwenza settle phantsi kwaye ezimbalwa ebukekayo ubuchule bokwenza izinto eziza kukunceda fumana yakhe akukho xesha. Ukuba ukhe ubene struggling ukufumana into ofuna kwi dating app (funda: umntu ngubani anomdla ingxowa-a ezinzima budlelwane), omnye umngeni ube phezulu ngokuchasene kukuba ungaqinisekanga into yakho iyahambelana ingaba ikhangela. Elena Morello, umbhali Uthando Uluhlu: A Guide Ukufumana Into Ofuna uthi ukuthatha i-cue ukususela kweli, kwaye yenza eyakho intentions gca kwi-inkangeleko yakho. ‘Esithi, ‘ndiza anomdla umtshato kwaye settling phantsi ngokukhawuleza’ iza ngapha kakhulu olomeleleyo, ‘ yena uthi, ‘kodwa into efana, ‘ndifuna kuba wanikela budlelwane’ ivula incoko. ‘Xa ubhala yakho bio, Morello uthi awugcine elifutshane sweet, kwaye iquka ntoni a kwezo meko ixesha elide iqabane lakho ingaba ufuna ukwazi malunga nawe. ‘Gcwalisa solid yabucala. Ekubeni iifoto ukuba kuboniswe yakho personality ngu iqhosha: Ingaba baba mema abanye ukuba ufuna ukufumana ukwazi yokwenene kuwe? Ukumbule ukuba akukho bani sele ixesha ukufunda samkele, ngoko ke ukubhala succinctly kwaye ziquka yakho umdla. ‘Njengoko ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, njengoko isigqibo na okanye hayi yakho iyahambelana ingaba apha kuba okwenene, nto, Morello uthi umfanekiso ke kukunceda kakhulu eliwaka mazwi. ‘Khangela iifoto ngenyameko,’ wakhumbula icebisa. ‘Ingaba ezi zonke ileta-ze iifoto? Mhlawumbi umntu ujonge kuba zinokuphathwa hook phezulu. Ngabo isiqingatha name iifoto? Yena ke, mhlawumbi partying kwaye hayi ikhangela into ezinzima. ‘Low-umgangatho iifoto okanye zabucala ngaphandle bio bamele kanjalo imiqondiso ukuba lo mntu ayi putting kakhulu iinzame, kwaye ayi ikhangela into ezinzima. Ixesha emini okanye ebusuku ukuba ukhe ubene ngokuqhelekileyo chatting kunye ukufanisa unako kanjalo kuba telltale umqondiso into yena ke ikhangela. ‘Unakekele xa sukuba. owenza ingxoxo kunye nawe,’ utshilo Lauren Levine, dating ingcali kwaye co-umququzeleli we-Margarita Confessionals. ‘Kutheni ngexesha workday xa sukuba. okruqukileyo kwaye uzama okokuba ixesha? Ukuba ngenene emva kwexesha ebusuku? Oku mhlawumbi umntu ngubani na ukukhangela a budlelwane. Kanjalo, incoko kufuneka kuba ubutyebi kuyo. Ukuba ke nje, ‘Njani waba yakho impela-veki?’ okanye ‘Yintoni wena ngokwenza namhlanje?’ imihla kwi end, baya ukuba mhlawumbi hayi jonga ukufumana ukwazi wena kwi-nzulu inqanaba. ‘Levine uthi kanjalo ukuba bayigcine le umthetho ka-koobhontsi engqondweni xa nisolko messaging imifanekiso. ‘Ukuba baya kuba okwenene, incoko kwaye ufuna ukufumana ukwazi kuni ngokunjalo, baya ukuba mhlawumbi anomdla into ngakumbi,’ wakhumbula utshilo. ‘Ukuba ukhe ubene ukufumana enye-manani responses, baya ukuba mhlawumbi hayi ukuzama ukutyala imali kwi-umntu. Kanjalo, bahlangana phezulu msinyane uziva ethambileyo. Ke ngoko kakhulu lula ukuqonda ukuba yintoni na umntu unje kwaye benza ntoni. ikhangela xa ufuna ukuba kunye nabo ubuso ngobuso. ‘Ngakumbi kwezo meko iyahambelana kufuneka, ngakumbi kusenokwenzeka ukuba kubalulekile ukuba ukhe ubene oza kufumana ilungelo umfazi kuba nawe, akunjalo? Ngokunxulumene Uyakobi Anderson, dating ingcali e Ngaphaya Iminyaka, le indlela yokuyi unako ngokuqinisekileyo end phezulu backfiring xa nisolko kwiindawo zentengiso kuba into ezininzi ezinzima. ‘Abaninzi dating apps kwaye dating zephondo ingaba essentially a amanani umdlalo,’ athi. ‘Ujonga ngapha amakhulu zabucala, umyalezo dozens abantu, kwaye mhlawumbi get ezimbalwa imihla. Kunye Ikofu Meets Bagel izinto zi-hluke kakhulu. Ukuba ufumane yonke imihla thelekisa oko kukuthi kakuhle filtered ukuba abe zingqinelana yintoni osikhangelayo. Ukususela kuwe kuphela ukufumana omnye umdlalo ngosuku, umntu ngamnye ngqo kuthatha ixesha ukuba uhlole i-thelekisa endaweni eyenza isigqibo kwi-u-imizuzwana ngokusekelwe umfanekiso. ‘Ngaba anayithathela ebone i-commercials, wena anayithathela weva impumelelo stories, kwaye xa ufuna anayithathela mhlawumbi toyed kunye unye ka-putting imali emva yakho uphendlo kuba budlelwane, usenama-akhange na pulled i-phinda-phinda. Ukuba ufuna akhange na lunxulumano umxholo apha, masithi nathi kuba kakhulu nani: ngakumbi obandakanyekayo a dating app ngu -, ngaphantsi kusenokwenzeka ukuba abasebenzisi uza ukuyisebenzisa kuba low-nokuzinikela casual encounters. Kukho plenty ka-functionalities ufumane kunye Ne ezenza inkqubo ngaphezulu kakhulu, ukususela algorithms ukuba kuwazisa similarities xa kunokwenzeka profiles ukuba akunakho layisha phezulu ngaphezu a handful ka-iifoto, ngoko ke ufumana u’a ongasentsimini umfanekiso umntu ukhe ubene chatting kunye. Xa ufuna ukuba ungakwazi ukusebenzisa ezinye iimpawu kuba free, inyanga ke, ubulungu uza misela kuwe emva $. (okanye ukuba ukhe ubene lizimisele ukuba benze iinyanga ezintathu, $. ngenyanga nganye). I-League isebenza phantsi efanayo limited thelekisa indlela njengoko Ikofu Meets Bagel. Eneneni, kukho kwa linda uluhlu ukuba sayina, apho unako umqolo ukusuka kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ukuya kwiinyanga kuxhomekeke umsebenzisi isiseko ezikhoyo apho uhlala khona. Emva kokuba & ngokusebenzisa abo hoops, nisolko onikiweyo ezintathu iyahambelana ngosuku ngokusekelwe izinto ezikhethekayo ze-ukuba ngaba umphandle, eziquka proximity kwaye ubudala. Ngexesha iyaqala kwi League banokuthatha okomzuzwana, i-app ngu usebenzisa ikhompyutha inkqubo ingaba ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantu ngokusebenzisa yona ingaba ethabatha ngayo seriously. I-League uya ngqo kick engasebenziyo abasebenzisi ngaphandle emva kwiiveki ezimbini, oko kuqinisekisa abantu nisolko ulinganisa kunye ingaba ngqo, kusetyenziswa ngayo. I-intanethi dating burnout unako kunokwenzeka ukuba nabani na kodwa kuba budlelwane-focused abafazi abo esiba grimy imiyalezo ethunyelwe yabo dating app inboxes kwi rhoqo, oku kunokwenziwa end phezulu ukwenza kwabo phoselani i towel. Bumble combats oku ngokwenza i-app ke messaging imisebenzi ladies’ oyikhethileyo. ‘Omnye wemiceli-jika offs ukusuka kwi-intanethi dating kukuba abafazi ingaba absolutely bombarded kunye imiyalezo esuka guys,’ Anderson sichaza. ‘Oku kunokwenziwa jika ezininzi eligible abafazi ngaphandle kwaye kukhokelela abanye uneven amandla dynamics kunye ezininzi kwi-intanethi zephondo. Kunye Bumble, kanye kuwe thelekisa kunye kwezo meko iqabane lakho umfazi kufuneka enze lokuqala shenxisa. Oku kwenza kuba ngcono amava kuba abafazi, eliphezulu umgangatho abasebenzisi, kwaye kwinto yonke engcono amava kuba wonke umntu. ‘Ukuba ukhe ubene ukudinwa ka-ukuzama ukuqinisekisa yakho ngokuhambiselana enokwenzeka iyahambelana ngokusekelwe ezimbalwa iifoto kwaye ezintathu emoji baya ziquka abo bio, jonga hayi ngaphezulu kwe-Bomgangatho Icacile. Ukuze sayina, amalungu kufuneka uzalise elizeleyo personality uvavanyo, nto leyo ke kusetyenziswa ukuchonga iyahambelana kwindawo yakho. Emva nisolko esayiniweyo phezulu, site imithombo — enokwenzeka iyahambelana ngosuku, apho eliminates ixesha suck ka-swiping emva kwaye phambili kwaye yenza kuba ngaphezu kwalo-oriented igama lomsebenzisi (ngokuba akukho namnye zabo ilungelo engqondweni yile ke ukuchitha imizuzu kwi iphepha lemibuzo malunga ukuba babe ukuba nje uzama ukufumana lucky tonight). Kwimeko kuwe akhange na ukuba ukubhatala ingqalelo ukuba ibhodi yezaziso ads, G. dating site «Ividiyo Dating» ekubeni a rebranding mzuzu, positioning kwabo njengokuba budlelwane-focused app. Oko kuthetha ukuthi chances ingaba eliphezulu ukuba omnye abafazi kwindawo yakho kuba kutshanje re-layishela phantsi egronjiweyo le app kwi-hopes ukuba lento ayi abanye ubuxoki izibhengezo. Commercials bucala, kukho imisebenzi kwi «Ividiyo Dating» ukuba ubolekise kulungile ukuba ingxowa-ukufanisa ke ukukhangela enye inqanaba ukuzinikela ufuna. Kuba starters, iqonga imisebenzi a ngakumbi ngenkxaso inkangeleko, apho ivumela amalungu ukuba uzalise zabo umdla, yintoni zabo lohlobo ngolwesihlanu ebusuku ikhangeleka ngathi kwaye benza ntoni ukuba ngokwenza kunye ubomi babo, zinika kuwe a ngaphezu koko-rounded unye ka-abo nisolko chatting kunye. Unga khangela kanjalo usebenzisa amagama angundoqo (ukuba ‘nokuzinikela’ okanye ‘ukukhangela into ezinzima’). Kuxhomekeke zingaphi imibuzo yakho thelekisa sele waphendula ngemiba ukuba ingaba ngokuqhelekileyo ngaphandle itafile kuba kuqala umhla intetho efana politics kwaye inkolo, nisolko kanjalo onikiweyo a ipesenti ukungqinelana ukubona into yakho odds ingaba. Iyafana Ikofu Meets Bagel (kwaye yinyaniso ukuba ngu igama), Kanye oninika omnye umdlalo ngosuku ngokusekelwe yakho uluhlu lwezinto ezikhethwayo. Nawe kanjalo uphumelele ukuba kwenzeka kuwo nawuphi na blurry, low umgangatho iifoto kwi-app, ukusukela ukuba kukho iqela ukuba verifies ngamnye inkangeleko photo iyalayisheka kwakhona. ukuqinisekisa ukuba ke elungileyo umgangatho (apho banokuthatha ukuya kwi-iiyure). Ngexesha hayi njengoko kofakwano njengoko ezinye nezinye ii-apps kule uluhlu, kukho uluhlu imibuzo uza kuba ukuphendula ukuze i-app ukuqala curating enokwenzeka imifanekiso. Yenu yonke imihla thelekisa layo zingaphelanga iiyure, oko kuthetha ukuba abasebenzisi hlala owenza ukuze uqinisekise ukuba babe musa unobuhle ngaphandle.

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