Dating kwi-China baza kuvuka ka"ze umtshato"

Kunjalo, flirting ingu langoku kuzo zombini cultures

Yintoni umahluko phakathi kwe-intlanganiso i-i-american kwaye Isitshayina? Kunjalo, zonke budlelwane nabanye zahlukileA ngakumbi Jikelele kwaye simpler impendulo ingxaki kukuba yakho kubudlelwane nge Westerner kubaluleke ngakumbi casual. Makhe siqwalasele le oluneenkcukacha umahluko phakathi budlelwane nabanye.

Kwi-China iqaqobana jikelele imihla kwe kwi-America, kwaye lento largely ngenxa conservative history of China.

Ngexesha Isitshayina Empire, wokuba a iskora ke ukubaluleka, ukusukela oko ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo ubutyebi kwaye somtshato (apho ngokulandelelanayo ukuqwalasela okuthethwayo bangcono no womtshato).

Ngokuhamba kwexesha, complex nenkululeko exams zithe eguquliweyo i kwi Ngezifundo abalindi ngasesangweni exam kwi-bale mihla China, apho limisela apho Ngezifundo uyakwazi enroll kwi (kwaye nokuba uyakwazi enroll kwaphela).

Yesikolo esiphakamileyo kukho uninzi ngesehlo soxinezelelo kwixesha kuba adolescents kwi-unxulumano kunye esikolweni onzima noqeqesho kuyimfuneko ukuba Gadi. Kwaye akuvumelekanga ukuba surprising ukuba iintsapho ezininzi musa approve ka-Dating phambi esikolweni, ngenxa yokuba sibone njengokuba a distraction ukugqiba nenkululeko imisebenzi. Eneneni, budlelwane nabanye ngabo ngamanye amaxesha nkqu kwalelwe ukuba ootitshala okanye iinqununu zezikolo kwi-China, abo kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba zabo abafundi musa ndiye esikolweni.

Abafazi silindele ukuba tshata de nisolko yakho twenties

Kodwa ukuba kuyinto ayisebenzi phambi College, ngoko ke abazali ikholisa ukuba uyigcine efihlakeleyo. Ukususela vula Dating ayikho ngokufanayo phambi College, Isitshayina bakholisa ukuba abe ngaphantsi ethambileyo nge-casual Dating, kwaye inzima ngakumbi xa kwi budlelwane. Kwesinye isandla, Dating e-United States ke jikelele ukuba abantu basebenzisa Dating ngokwabo njengoko indlela ukufumana ukwazi umntu ngcono. Emva ukunqakraza nge umntu olilungu Dating kuwe, kungenxa ngokwaneleyo ukuya kwi ngaphezulu imihla. Kodwa China, abantu, ngaphezu amaxesha amaninzi, musa kuphuma ukuzama ukuseka ezinzima okanye lasting budlelwane nabanye. Kwisithuba nje nzulu kwi ulutsha Dating kwaye umtshato uluhlu lwezinto ezikhethwayo kwi-China, kuphela ipesenti abafazi surveyed disagreed kunye nengxelo ukuba kungcono ukuba ahlangane kwaye emva koko enye kuphela omnye umntu ebomini. Uninzi Westerners kwaye Isitshayina abazithandayo ukuze ufumane foothold, kwaye zabo imbono ngu-mtshato, kodwa Westerners bakholisa ukuba abe ngaphezu vula ukuba olu khetho emva koko kwi-ubomi babo. Ngoko ke, Americans cinga umtshato njengoko isiganeko ukuba ingaba kwenzeka kamva. Nangona kunjalo, kuba Isitshayina abafazi, lo loluntu ticking ikloko. Eneneni, kukho kwakhona uthabatha ixesha kuba unmarried abafazi:"amalungu omntu abafazi."Kwakhona, oku thabatha attitude ngu enxulumene ne-Isitshayina inkcubeko, njengoko umtshato sibonwa ebalulekileyo inxalenye umntu ke uzinzo. Ke ngoko, amalungu osapho ezifana oomawomkhulu kwenza yonke into kunokwenzeka ukuba relieve uxinzelelo kwaye persuade zabo grandchildren ukufumana atshate xa ngabo amabini eminyaka ubudala. Kwesinye isandla, i-american iintsapho ingaba kakhulu ngaphantsi Intrusive ngalo mba. Ukuba umntu kwi-China meets umntu ongomnye, ngoko ke baya yokucinga elizayo ngaphezu Western omnye. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umntu a umgangatho umtshato okanye hayi, kakhulu ngaphambi koko Isitshayina kunokuba Westerners kwi-inkqubo Dating. Umzekelo, i-Isitshayina umfazi ngu kusenokwenzeka ukuba abe ngaphezu abachaphazelekayo kwe-i-i-american umfazi malunga boy, usapho lwakhe bume, kwaye uzinzo yakhe iimeko abaphila. Oku kubangelwa ukuba Isitshayina inkcubeko, abantu bamele uninzi sifuna ukuqalisa usapho, nto leyo ithetha ukuba kubalulekile kuba zokusebenza kuba usapho. Abafazi ingaba ukhangela kuba abantu abathe indlu imoto, ngenxa yokuba ibonisa ukuba umntu financially iityuwadefault colour kwaye ilungele umtshato. Nangona oku inqaku lencwadi ngu chu ukutshintsha kwi-bale mihla lwehlabathi, ihlala ingu yinyani kuba baninzi uninzi budlelwane nabanye kwi-China, kwaye imithetho Isitshayina girls imithetho silindele ukuba indoda uncedo zikhathalele intombi yakhe. Isitshayina couples ngamanye amaxesha kanjalo jonga ngamnye ezinye njenge -"man"kwaye"mfazi"nkqu ukuba abakho ngqo watshata - kwenye isibonisi ye-ezinzima zoko ka-Dating kuba baninzi Isitshayina.

Ze marriages, xa ezimbalwa efumana watshata, nkqu ukuba babe akunayo imoto okanye indlu.

Kuba abantu ngubani owakhe i-apartment kwaye nangona kunjalo, bamele rhoqo i-prerequisite kuba umtshato proposal ukuze babonise kwezezimali.

Nangona kunjalo, emva kokuwa stock yentengiso, igama elithi"ze umtshato"waba ethandwa kakhulu. Kunye fluctuating uhlumo wentengiso kwaye inyuke real estate amaxabiso, Xinhua iindaba sele ibalwa ngokusemthethweni ukuba abantu abadala kulutsha ayikwazi afford ukuba eyakho noba imoto okanye indlu (Xinhua.) Kubalulekile kusenokwenzeka ukuba younger Isitshayina sizukulwana siya kanjalo oppose i-ngokwamalungelo"esiqhelekileyo umtshato"kwaye, endaweni ujonge kuba nyulu uthando, apho kwezoqoqosho uzinzo ye-mlingane ayikho njengoko kubalulekile njengoko kwakunjalo. Uphando kanjalo ibonisa ukuba ngokwesini norms ingaba thatha ukutshintsha, nabafazi ingaba ngakumbi anomdla ekubeni elizimeleyo, njengoko enjalo ukwaliwa ye-unye ukuba umntu kufuneka kuba indlu imoto. Yenkcubeko neeyantlukwano ingaba eyona izizathu neeyantlukwano phakathi i-american kwaye Isitshayina Dating umlinganiselo. Ndiyathemba kuba ngcono unye ka-neeyantlukwano kwi-Dating phakathi Isitshayina kwaye isixhosa I-american. Kunjalo, ezi Dating stereotypes musa ukufaka isicelo strictly bonke abantu kuzo zonke cultures, kodwa ngabo generalizations. Kodwa China ngu ngaphantsi conservative ngoku kunokuba kwakunjalo amakhulu eminyaka eyadlulayo.

Ngokuhamba kwexesha, Western kwaye Isitshayina cultures zisuke ngakumbi efanayo.

Monica Chen yi bust umbhali mentoring.

Yena ukhulele kwi-California phambi kokuba uyise ukuba enew York ukuba graduate ukusuka Columbia Ngezifundo nge iqondo kwi-neurology.

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