Dating kubekho inkqubela

Eyona nto ayiyo ukuba overreact kwaye ingabi kuwela sarcasm

Mhlawumbi, wonke umntu kunye indoda nomfazi, young okanye Mature umntu, xa umbuzo yavuka:"Njani ukuba ahlangane a kubekho inkqubelaNjani ukwenza kubekho inkqubela ngu anomdla, kwaye familiarity kokuba yayo ukuqhuba."Kutshanje gaining popularity ka-Dating kwi-Intanethi. Kunjalo, ukuba zithungelana nge-hlola, kwi onesiphumo isithuba, kulula kwaye freer. Kodwa uza uyavuma ukuba visual unxibelelwano akukho substitute kuba bahlala ndibano, kokukhona enjoyable. Ngoko ke, indlela kuhlangana a kubekho inkqubela. Okokuqala, kufuneka baqonde ukuba uyakwazi kuhlangana naphi na: kwi street, Park, ivenkile, njalo-njalo. hayi necessarily kwi-library uza kuphela umhla intelligent abafazi, kwaye ebusuku club kukhulula anemonename. Ukuba kubekho inkqubela ngu-xa kuqaliswayo anomdla kuwe, musa unobuhle yakho ithuba. Kulo naliphi na ityala, ivela kwi amanqaku amava kwaye ukukholosa. Kwaye ukukholosa ufumana i-indispensable uphawu a real umntu. Ukwenza ezinye ibinzana, apho ndiya qala yam.

Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, ngoko ke akukho nto worry malunga

Umzekelo, buza ukuba yena ulindele kuba umntu okanye kuba umntu zichaza ungalufumana njani na isakhiwo. Xa usenza oku, ndithethe ngokucacileyo kwaye distinctly, musa ukuxoka. Kwaye nto ucetyiswa ngokuba hayi indlela kakhulu ngokukhawuleza ngoko ke njengoko hayi ekuvunyelwene ngawo personal isithuba.

Kungcono ukuba uhlale ezimbini iinyawo e ingalo ke ubude. Intshayelelo siqale echanekileyo"wena"uza kufumana ithuba ukuswitsha a ngakumbi adventurous"wena", kwaye, mhlawumbi, initiator iya kuba kubekho inkqubela herself. Musa umbuzo xa sifuna kuqala zahlangana malunga eli kubalulekile distasteful.

Ngoku, ukuba uyaqhubeka, kufuneka ithuba ukufunda hayi kuphela kangakanani le kubekho inkqubela, kodwa yakhe umhla wokuzalwa. Sebenzisa humor xa unxibelelwano. Akukho nimangaliswe bathi ukuba"uninzi ezixabisekileyo isipho somoya nature funny, sarcastic kwaye okulungileyo engqondweni."Laugh kubekho inkqubela, uza disarm yakhe kwaye ndiya ukusungula"ndibhala le leta"unxibelelwano. Kungeyo sarcastic indlela uthetha ukuba abantu banako kuba daunting. Musa kuba besoyika ukuba usebenzise kwi ukungaphumeleli. Emva zonke,"akukho nto ventured."frankly Ukuba kubekho inkqubela buhle akuthethi ukuba zithetha yena ke ayifumaneki. Mhlawumbi zonke yakhe ubomi yena ndalinda kuba umntu njenge nani.

Emva kokufumana i-ukwaliwa, musa despair le yindlela nje uphawu ukuqhubeka yokukhangela.

Kwaye zange nabukrwada kwi-impendulo. Khumbula: thabatha amava kakhulu amava. Phambi kokuba uqale Dating iliza. Kulula kwaye relaxed isimbo unxibelelwano uza kufumana kuni kubekho inkqubela. Ngaphantsi bathethe malunga"ngokwakho": guy ngu selfish ngu hardly nomcimbi ka-amaphupha ebhunga elifanelekileyo ngesondo. Ukuba kubekho inkqubela ucela kuwe ngaphandle herself, musa ukunika exhaustive iimpendulo, kujikela kude kubo. Girls ingaba mysterious izidalwa, kwaye babe ngathi puzzles. Waguquka xa uthetha ukuba kubekho inkqubela, kaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka umnxeba wakhe ngegama. Oku kuza kunika unxibelelwano intimacy kwaye ndiya kunikela yakhe kuwe. Ndithetha izincomo, uthi kubo na injongo. Abafazi intuitively bazive iibhonasi kwaye kulungile baqonde inyaniso. Xa intlanganiso kunye kubekho inkqubela ngenyameko elindile. Enye yezinto ezisisiseko imigaqo xa unxibelelwano nge kubekho inkqubela ufumana ilungelo ukukhetha mcimbi. Ukuba uyabona ukuba kubekho inkqubela ke ubuso wawa waza waba indifferent ukuba urgently tshintsha isihloko. Ukufumana ilungelo icala, kufuneka ngenyameko hlola yakhe jikeleziso. Kule unganceda ulwazi umqondiso ulwimi: ukuba kubekho inkqubela ngu relaxed, abasasazwe, ngexesha incoko uqalisa itephu okanye kunyikima yakho leg, inattentive amazwi, pulls into okanye lowered yakhe eyelids kwaye stares, hayi ngomhla wena, yena ngokuqinisekileyo onayo okruqukileyo.

Kodwa ukuba isongiwe yakhe izikhali ngomhla wakhe axis powers, hayi ufuna ukuyeka unxibelelwano. ukuba gestures ingaba vula, yena mbindini phantsi yakho icala waza wavula amehlo akhe widely, yena ngu anomdla. Remembering i-adage ukuba"amehlo kukho jonga yomphefumlo", unako kanjalo kuba iqaphele ukuba, ukuba kubekho inkqubela ngu, pupils yena uya yandisa, xa uthabatha attitude ye-pupils ngokuqhelekileyo constrict. Kwi-inkqubo perception ka-umntu ngomntu, kwaye wethu meko a kubekho inkqubela, indima ebalulekileyo idlalwe ngu ukumiselwa kwebandla kuqala impressions.

Ukuba yayo yonke impression ngu imisikeko, kuya kukhokelela nokuhlola yayo, engaziwayo qualities.

Ukuba, kwi ephikisana, yokuqala impression ngu unfavourable, zilawula iya kuba uthabatha nokuhlola. Kwaye acquaintance, uninzi kusenokwenzeka ukuba, oku kuya end. Nawuphi na kunjalo, kufuneka ukumbule ukuba girls kanjalo ufuna ukuya kuhlangana kunye ukutsala i-ingqalelo nayiphi na guy, kodwa andikakwazi ukuyenza. Abaninzi xa befuna, kwaye ube ujonge kuba kuni. Dare kwaye uza waphumelela.